人的一生会遇上的四个人

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。

第一个是自己，
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人。

首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够和你相处一辈子的人。

但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。

你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。

当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？

爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆。
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏；
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点。
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。

真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
你呢？找到了第几个？
茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？

The Four Person You Will Meet In Life

Life is the process of finding love.

Every person will need to find four people in his/her life.

First person is yourself.

Second person is the one you love most.

Third person is the one who loves you most.

Lastly, the one you spend the rest of your life with.



In life, first you will meet with the one you love most,

and learn how love feels;

Because you know how love feels,

you can find the person who loves you most.

When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved,

you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the

person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most doesn’t love you;

The one who loves you most is never the one you love most;

And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love

most or the one who loves you most.

He/She is just the person who happens to be at the right place at

the right time. Which person are you in other people’s life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart.

At the point in time when he/she loves you, he/she really loves you;

But when he/she doesn’t love you anymore, he/she really doesn’t love

you anymore; When he/she loves you, he/she can pretend that he/she doesn’t.

Same goes, when he/she loves you no more, there’s no way he/she can pretend he/she loves you.

When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you,

you must ask yourself if you still love him/her. If you also don’t

love him/her anymore, don’t ever let him/her leave just to save your pride.

If you still love him/her, you should wish him/her happiness and

hope that he/she will be with the one he/she loves most, not stop

him/her from it. If you stop him/her from finding true happiness with the one he/she

loves, it shows you already don’t love him/her, And if you don’t love

him/her, what rights do you have to blame him/her for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive.

If you like the moon, you can just take it down and put it in your

basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you.

In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method

of possessing that person. Let him/her become a permanent memory in your life.

If you really love the person, you must love him/her for what he/she is;

Love him/her for his/her good points and the bad, You can wish for

him/her to become like what you like him/her to be just because you love him/her.

If he/she can change to become what you like him/her to be, you don’t love him/her anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find reason why you love him/her,

You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood,

you will wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times,

not always be on the receiving end.

Being away from each other is a type of test.

If the relationship isn’t strong, then you can only admit defeat.

Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love,

they love to ask each other to swear and to make promises.

Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?

Because they don’t trust each other, they don’t trust their lover.

These swear and promises are useless;

Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change!

We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean will never dry.

Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises, don’t make promises that you cannot keep.

Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen,

so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!

In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;

The one saying doesn’t believe; the one listening also doesn’t believe.

Which person have you found so far? In the world so big, which person have you found? And who has found you?

james ingram - Just Once

I did my best
But I guess my best wasn't good enough
'Cause here we are back where we were before
Seems nothing ever changes
We're back to being strangers
Wondering if we oughta stay
Or head on out the door

Just once can't we figure out what we keep doing wrong
Why we never last for very long
What are we doing wrong
Just once can't we find a way to finally make it right
Make the magic last for more than just one night
If we could just get to it
I know we could break through it

I gave my all
But I think my all may have been too much
'Cause Lord knows we're not getting anywhere
Seems we're always blowing whatever we got going
And seems at times with all we've got
We haven't got a prayer

Just once can't we figure out what we keep doing wrong
Why the goodtimes never last for very long
Seems we're always blowing
Whatever we got going

Just once can't we find a way to finally make it right
Make the magic last for more than just one night
If we could just get to it
I know we could break through it

Just once I want to understand
Why it always come back to good-bye
Why can't we get ourselves in hand
And admit to one another
That we're no good with out the other
Take the best and make it better
Find a way to stay together

Just once can't we find a way to finally make it right
Make the magic last for more than just one night
I know we can break through it
If we could just get to it

Just once
If we could get to it

Just Once...

james ingram- Just Once

If a girl cries in front of you,
it means that she couldn't take it anymore.
If you take her hand,
she'd stay with you
for the rest of your life;
If you let her go,
she couldn't go back to
be herself anymore.

A girl won't cry easily,
except in front of the person
whom she loves most.
She becomes weak.
A girl won't cry easily,
only when she loves you the most,
she puts down her dignity.

Guys,
if a girl cries because of you,
please hold her hands firmly,
because she's the one who is willing to
stay with you for the rest of your life.

Guys,
if a girl cries because of you,
please don't give her up.
Maybe because of your decision,
you ruined her life.
When she cries right in front of you,
Because of you,
look into her eyes,
can you see and feel the pain and hurt she's feeling?
Think.
Which other girl had cried with pure sincerity,
in front of you,
and because of you?
She cries not because she's weak,
She cries not because she wants sympathy or pity,
She cries,
because crying silently
is no longer possible,
the pain, hurt and agony have become
too big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a girl cries her heart out to you,
and all because of you,
its time to look back on what you have done,
only you will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Because one day,
it may be too late for regrets.
It may be too late to say "I'm sorry".

Resigned from Pastamania

I've resigned from Pastamania.

20/9/2006 will be my last day of work.

Going to work in the IT sector.

omg!!!

Hard Disk Died.

MY LAPPIE HARDDISK HAS DIED 2 DAYS AGO!!!

I will not be online for sometime. call me.

SobSob ;-(

For want of a nail, the horseshoe was lost,
For want of a horseshoe, the horse was lost,
For want of a horse, the rider was lost,
For want of a rider, the message was lost,
For want of a message, the battle was lost,
For want of a battle, the war was lost,
For want of a war, the kingdom was lost.
And all for the want of a horseshoe nail.

Don't Quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low, and the debts are high,
And when you want to smile,

but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.


Life is odd with its twists and turns,
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out,
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
You may succeed with another blow.

Success is failure turned inside out,
The silcer tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are.
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit.
It's when things seems worst

that you must not quit.