The Four Person You Will Meet In Life

Life is the process of finding love.

Every person will need to find four people in his/her life.

First person is yourself.

Second person is the one you love most.

Third person is the one who loves you most.

Lastly, the one you spend the rest of your life with.



In life, first you will meet with the one you love most,

and learn how love feels;

Because you know how love feels,

you can find the person who loves you most.

When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved,

you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the

person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most doesn’t love you;

The one who loves you most is never the one you love most;

And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love

most or the one who loves you most.

He/She is just the person who happens to be at the right place at

the right time. Which person are you in other people’s life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart.

At the point in time when he/she loves you, he/she really loves you;

But when he/she doesn’t love you anymore, he/she really doesn’t love

you anymore; When he/she loves you, he/she can pretend that he/she doesn’t.

Same goes, when he/she loves you no more, there’s no way he/she can pretend he/she loves you.

When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you,

you must ask yourself if you still love him/her. If you also don’t

love him/her anymore, don’t ever let him/her leave just to save your pride.

If you still love him/her, you should wish him/her happiness and

hope that he/she will be with the one he/she loves most, not stop

him/her from it. If you stop him/her from finding true happiness with the one he/she

loves, it shows you already don’t love him/her, And if you don’t love

him/her, what rights do you have to blame him/her for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive.

If you like the moon, you can just take it down and put it in your

basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you.

In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method

of possessing that person. Let him/her become a permanent memory in your life.

If you really love the person, you must love him/her for what he/she is;

Love him/her for his/her good points and the bad, You can wish for

him/her to become like what you like him/her to be just because you love him/her.

If he/she can change to become what you like him/her to be, you don’t love him/her anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find reason why you love him/her,

You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood,

you will wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times,

not always be on the receiving end.

Being away from each other is a type of test.

If the relationship isn’t strong, then you can only admit defeat.

Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love,

they love to ask each other to swear and to make promises.

Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?

Because they don’t trust each other, they don’t trust their lover.

These swear and promises are useless;

Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change!

We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean will never dry.

Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises, don’t make promises that you cannot keep.

Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen,

so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!

In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;

The one saying doesn’t believe; the one listening also doesn’t believe.

Which person have you found so far? In the world so big, which person have you found? And who has found you?